I hesitated in mentioning this in my post above but figure I might as well throw this in as someone already alluded to this earlier already. How confident are you that there are no negative perspective or feedback regarding your son from a character or work ethic standpoint? If the college coaches call his current travel coach, will they say that this kid has amazing character, work ethic, and leadership quality? Have you checked all of your son's social media and confirm that there's nothing crazy out there? I personally know of several kids that have great measurable but really bad character, have social media posts that makes most people cringe, and several DUI incidents in their record. Lastly, how do you behave during the games and showcases? Make sure you are not acting like a crazy parent or trying to talk to the college coaches scouting the games.
I'm not saying anything of these are happening with your son. But need to throw these out there, not just for your sake, but for all the other lurkers trying to learn from our experiences.