Agree....it's fine to ask for a timeframe to give them an answer. They won't mind. My son was lucky. He visited a school on a Tuesday, the coach came to watch him pitch Wednesday evening and called and offered Thursday morning. He accepted on the spot over the phone while standing in the parking lot of another school that was interested (we had just finished a game there). It was his first offer.....he had already decided that he was going there if they offered so it was easy for us. Good luck!