I would hate for any parent to be so upset on Sept 4 about the offers that their child has and doesn't have, that they would feel bitter or upset. There is so much time left and the dream school the player has in mind, may just present itself at a later opportunity. If not, there's probably another one around the corner that just hasn't called yet!
However, like FBM says, when that dream school calls, they're expecting cooperation, interest, and a willingness to go through the recruiting process. A chip on anyone's shoulder... dad, mom, or player can end an opportunity real quick!
Good luck to our '07s and continue to have patience and grace during the LONG recruiting process.