An undergraduate degree does not seem to carry the same prestige or provide the same return on investment as it did when many of us attended college. I think that makes it all the more important not to break the bank or incur student debt for undergrad, to the extent possible. In light of that, I am trying to have my son focus on schools where he is in the top 25% of applicants, and therefore will receive considerable merit aid. Now, will that work who knows LOL!! But just want to make the point to please have your son keep an open mind - there are many many truly excellent schools where they can flourish without having to pay full freight. Maybe not Ivy or NESCAC, but still great institutions with lots to offer. And we know from experience that young people, if they truly give it a chance and work at it, they will end of loving their "second" or lower tier choice.