OK - Life lesson here - You are not paying for it, so don't complain. It could be that "Dad" never had the opportunity or funds to play the game. He sees the opportunity to give his kid what he never had. Maybe the kid has saved up Birthday and Christmas $$ and decided to buy the glove, bat, etc. Maybe there is no reason for the purchase of the pricey equipment. What you, as an older player can do, is remind them what a great glove, bat, etc, they have and encourage them to take care of it so it will last a long time. People who work for their money are free to spend it at they choose, as long as it's not illegal or immoral.