Any James Bond movie - He is cool and finding dates?...not a problem. Also gets to kill bad guys.
High Plains Drifter - If you watch that movie and you are not snarling like Eastwood at your wife and kids by the end, you ain't getting it.
Die Hard - Bruce Willis is the epitome of never giving up...manly action until the end.
Animal House - Not so much violence, but good college prankster humor.