Honestly, I disagree 100%. Athletic recruiting offered an opportunity to meet and experience what my son wanted to do for the rest of his life. He had an 18 month advance over normal students. It was the best experience for him to mature to see how the adult world works.
If kids don't have a clue what they want to do, maybe deferring college and working a real job will help? My parents told me I had 4 choices: college with their financial help , work at home and pay rent, work and get own apt, or go into the military. I gave my kids the same options. I chose door #1. 18 years old is old enough to own it, and take full responsibility.
As always, Jmo.