Maybe tone translates different to different people. I didn't see that. I just saw most people warning him against making the decision too soon. Knowing your options is always a good idea, but in this environment, deciding to reclass before you see how recovery goes, could just put him behind in college and make his son feel like he wasted his parents money on a post grad year. None of us know what next year holds with the one time transfer and I think people were just trying to warn him that it is a harsh world in baseball right now.
Its hard to read intent when you are online, but I think most people here really do try to be helpful.