Thank you all for the great advice and words of wisdom. You've pointed out clear goals to shoot for, how to proceed from here on out and provided me the perspective to just enjoy the ride. The game is fun, he loves playing and I love watching, I'll remind myself that everytime the other stuff creeps into my brain. Thanks again for grounding me (I'm sure it won't be the last time)
You just gave yourself some great advice!
It really doesnt matter at this point (the question that you asked), if your son loves playing the game and wishes to go on to play college ball, if he works hard and stays focused and healthy, then it will happen.
Most importantly, don't forget about doing well in school. This will open just as many doors for him as his skills on the diamond.