We went the Juco route and it was probably the best fit for us.
We found the recruiting process to be a game of sorts. Juco's were ringing our phones off the hook in our state. DI school showed a ton of interest, my son didnt feel they were a fit and basically told the coach straight to his face it he didnt fell like this was where he should be. It took some guts to do that, I think it hurt me/spouse worse than the coach, lol and our son. Your son will know where he fits in.
Even after he started this fall...he said to me in October..ya know mom I made the right choice and I really know it now,. I was shocked I thought he knew it the entire time. lol
Juco is and excellent stepping stone..and some of the baseball programs along with the educational sysetm is nothing to knock.