My son had not even made a final decision at this point, but did not commit after an overnight visit to a school. A few days later he received what we thought was a drunk text from the HC pulling the offer and really telling my son off. That coach was fired within a year btw and I think also charged with drunk driving too. Otherwise one of the hardest phone calls he had to make was to a coach whom he loved and had over a two year "relationship" with -- but the thing he liked best about that school was the coach (and his promises he would be a two way guy) and so my son opted to go elsewhere. It was less than a minute and the disappointed HC said next to nothing as I think he was probably shocked.