I'm sorry if your sensibilities were offended. But, again, the transaction between ND and Kelly was not against any rule and was, in fact, within tradition of college football.
It may be one you disagree with, but is has nothing to do with the golden rule. Notre Dmae has a responsibility to its players and program and we would be criticizing them if they risked their program and waited while other teams signed the better coaches available.
Coaches deciding to leave a bowl bound team happens often. A coach getting a team to a bowl, or the March Tournament in the case of basketball, is often done with this as the objective. You might argue that the players are agrieved parties, and you'd be right. Unintended consequences are a b!tch.
As a Catholic and a father of an alum, I am proud of what ND teaches and how it fulfills its mission.