But on the unofficial visits, do they stay with players?
Of course, in that case one could say that the "official visits" are just spending money for no particular purpose, other than to give the committed players and their families a good time. And sure, they get to meet each other, but they would do that on social media or when they come to campus anyway. If the program makes money, fine - but most don't.
And, I would think that baseball players would be just as amenable to parties and women as any other athlete, if they were offered...