Most parents don’t have a clue about the talent outside what they see at their kid’s games.
A parent asked if my son dominated his travel games like he dominated high school games. He was shocked when I responded he fit in. He was no better or worse than anyone. Sometimes he was the man. Other games it’s someone else. Everyone in the team went P5 except for the kid who chose an Ivy over an HA P5 and the kid who was dumber than a bag of rocks who went to a ranked JuCo.