Your son is a very good baseball player for his age, which is great. Mine is too. (And I'm really happy for my son, because he works his tail off week after week to get better. I'd bet that's something our sons have in common). Based on what you've said, it sounds like your son will be successful in HS baseball this year. However, when push comes to shove it really doesn't matter how good either of them are right now.
(This recent post by LUV BASEBALL really hit home for me)
They have many years ahead of them, and many things to derail/distract them. So we might as well enjoy them this season, and appreciate all that they do, and try not to worry too much over the future. It is tough because we want to do the best for them, to help them get where they want to be. But 95% of that will be up to them. I hope your kid has a great spring and mashes the heck out of North Jersey and NYC pitching -- if we lived closer to you, we'd be tempted to come up and see him play.