jmepop (and anyone else having problems posting photos),
I think the problem you are having with posting your pictures has something to do with the AOL site where they are located. I had a similar problem trying to post my daughter's pictures from there. The properties that you are using refer to the page that contains the photo, but not the photo itself. There might not be a way to link directly to the photo.
I use Webshots.com for no particular reason other than it was used by another poster here when I started. Some are using Photobucket.com, imageshack.com, or the HSBBW Photo Gallery where they have posted pictures. Some are also linking to their son's college or other team's web page.