You made a good start to your last post by admitting that you did not know the rule. Before that, you were pretty rude and inappropriate in your comment to piaa_ump:
"And Piaa_ump who the heck do you think you are...chill out and dont lecture me and talk down to me like that."
"Who the heck he is" is a very well-respected member of our community, who is very generous in offering good advice from many years of baseball experience. I would guess he has about 20 to 30 times as much experience in a position of authority on the baseball field as you do (his decades of experience vs. your 1 year of coaching so far).
You are the same age as my youngest son, so I'd like to give you the benefit of the doubt, but you might think about showing some respect for those who have been around the block a bunch more times than you have.
And don't forget, you did start this thread by saying "Please tell me if i was wrong".Julie