@baseballhs posted:Just from experience, that was what my son’s dream school said too. When his second choice offered, our travel coach told them we were taking it unless they offered. They didn’t. This is after asking him to call every week for a year and inviting him to campus twice. Other schools offered on the spot. I think if they want you, they know. If they need to “see you one more time” they are dragging you along while they keep looking for someone else they like more. I understand the dream schools, but the experience isn’t always what it’s cracked up to be.
Agree with this. "Need to see you one more time" means they have something else cooking and you are possibly the fall back plan. Ask yourself, how many times have they seen your son play and which coaches saw him? Back when my first committed to his original school his freshman year, he had several offers on the table. But there was one school that he would have actually committed to if they didn't play this same game. The head coach was the one that had seen him play 5+ times already. So I pointed out to my son how many times they already saw him and they knew where to see him at anytime as he was easily available to this head coach at any given weekend. So with that realization, he counted them out of the process and ended up choosing his original school.
Like others have said, remove emotion and go where you feel loved.