I don't think I am unrealistic at all. I don't like him, and I don't want him on my team. I think he is a low character guy, who doesn't make good decisions. I believe that is a recipe for disaster. I would build my team with character guys. Does that mean I wouldn't have to deal with instances of guys making poor decisions? Of course not, but I will have to deal with less, and my team's could focus on what they should...winning ball games.
What if he's the best available option-- by far-- to help your team win? And he comes at a price so incredibly discounted in comparison to a what player of his caliber typically garners on the open market?
I don't have much to say, other than I hope he matures, and starts to make better decisions. I wish him well, but I am glad he isn't a Brave.