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luvbb,

Sorry, I got caught up in one of my moments. Now to answer your question...How do you deal with it?

Folks that are in these situations and for those of you who do not know me, I have been through this with mine and then some.

You MUST find a way at least in your mind to feel like you are controlling the situation, when in fact you are not. It will ease the pain and help you to cope. The mind is a funny thing and it is a powerful thing. It can make us believe we are sick when we are not; it can make us feel better when we are not. I know it is easier said than done, but folks in general in these situations will WORRY themselves SICK. To the point where the game is just not fun anymore.

Find ways that help you cope; I do not know what they are; for myself, I made up my mind when the wheels came off the cart that I would step back and let someone else put them on. It worked for me and it did help ease the anxiety that I was experiencing.

Hope this was a little better.

O42
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