All good points, but it is the parents' responsibility. My son was a 3 sport athelete thru his freshman year in HS. Soccer, basketball and baseball.. all at the travel / club / aau level. I have always believed that a kid should experience all sports, not just concentrate on one (if (s)he chooses). I also believe that this reduces the risk of overuse injuries and builds well rounded muscle coordination. We were always up front with the coaches... he will commit to your team as priority in season. Out of season, he has other teams and commitments. Family first, then school, then sports. If this doesn't work for you, then we can find a new team. There are coaches and teams that have the same morals and beliefs. Sure they may not be state champs, or travel the country playing tournaments, but that is a life lesson.. winning isn't everything.