Captainhasbeen, no intention of sending you love! Don't know who you are or that you are a coach. But since you put it out there, yes, these boys are close to being of age, but they are not yet of age. Yes, a high school coach is just that, when you become a college coach and my son gets some type of compensation for playing(scholarship), the game is different.
When my tax dollars pay your stipend to coach at a high school, that job comes with additional requirements.
I would have to assume that the coach on first base yelling and cursing at the child (under 18) is either you or a coach on your team. A parent should not condone the behavior (overlook, do nothing to stop).
So, as ****** as it sounds, if you are the coach and you are the proud parent of 2 children under 5, vidoe tape yourself. Evaluate how you're treating the boys under your guidance. Better yet, please send me your schedule, I would love to come out and watch you coach.