Cabbage wrote; “Also know that the coaching fraternity tends to be a small word and they often talk to each other. Be respectful of confidential discussions and don’t try to BS, exaggerate, or bluff.”
This is 100% correct and some of the best advice you could ever get. If you over step your bounds with any school it’s easy to lose credibility - and once it’s lost you don’t get it back. The offended coach then tells his buddies (that are also recruiting your son) that your son isn’t trustworthy. At that point you are SOL.