We never talked specifics and never had to. They knew when sons got offers and what those offers were generally. In both situations, after a big offer was made the others would be calling in a short time. Not only is the coaching fraternity small but the alumni/fan base is. We were convinced that there were those who we knew real well that would leak information to the schools they wanted sons to attend. When he got his UT offer, another P5 called within 30 minutes to up their offer to a full ride to try and trump the UT offer. We never had to let them know.