TR, let me post this again, maybe you will be able to read and comprehend it this time.
TPM has a son playing pro ball, you don't!
I couldn't care less if you had boys you coached playing pro ball. Most of the coaches here that post do have former players playing pro ball, you aren't anything special. You simply didn't have a son that was talented enough to play pro ball, no shame in that.
So you are so tight with these players that you are also their tax accountant?
And who told you what to do? If I would ever tell you what to do on anything, it would be to take a long walk of a short pier.
Where do you come up with this bitterness in your life? You are without a doubt the most bitter person on this site. Take some advise before you start giving any, go see a therapist and work out your issues because you have plenty of them.