This is a great post. I stepped back once my son turned 14 and started playing travel ball, talking to college coaches, etc. I never went to any practices and at every game I didn't say a word to anyone.
He's 18 now in his last semester of high school. Every workout / throwing session is all directed by him. I don't remember the last time I asked him if he was going to work out or go throw. I joke that all I do is drive the bus and pay the bills but since hes older I don't even drive the bus anymore.
The college he's signed to moves all pitchers in June 1, so I've been thinking about that a lot. I'm trying to focus on "being where my feet are" and enjoying every moment. Even if hes never home.