- Agreed things change. I remember when my son was 14, if we had to drive 2 hours, we were getting a hotel and not driving 4 hours in a day. Flash forward to age 16, we would drive 4 hours a day for baseball several days a week without blinking at it.
- when I say come home, I'm not thinking it's with us all the time. Even when he was home, we didn't see him much on the weekends. When you're 20 years old, being in the house with your parents isn't exactly the ideal use of your time.