@RJM posted:We arrived at Aberdeen for a 16u tournament way too early one weekend. My son asked why we were watching a 10u game. Without blinking I responded, “10u mothers.”
I remember the first time I noticed one of my basketball players as a young woman. I thought, “Wow, she got hot looking. Now remember she’s just a basketball player.”
It wasn’t a matter of looking at her in a weird manner. It was a matter of just don’t look, period other than to coach.