Final update. Son was accepted ED to an HA program in the midwest. Glad it's over. Son is very happy with the program he's going to, for both school and ball. Looking back, I think the west-coast states are at a big disadvantage cost-wise with so many teams located near or east of the Mississippi. We would have attended more on campus camps but the resources and time required was insane.
Not sour grapes though, the process worked out and I think my son ended up at the type of program that made sense. Thanks for everyone's help.