Truly humbled and grateful for all of you that take time out of your busy day to offer advice and "coach up" us parents who are trying to figure out this whole process. We have read every comment and are using all of the great information you have shared.
Ultimately, this will be a trip to check out these schools that he THINKS might be a good fit academically and socially, but are in very different settings than he is used to.
We were hoping the baseball meet ups would be another layer of determining fit, so we'll try our darndest to see and get seen, but if not, then we'll hopefully walk away with a better understanding of the types of schools he should target for baseball when the time is right.
We will post an update when we return. Thanks again!!!