Valentines day...what I don't want is flowers or jewelry that will show up on the charge card receipts the following month. Candy that will show up on my backside the following week or a card that he bought the following hour before he came home. What I do want it to share a few minutes with the boy who caught my eye with those red tennis shoes who turned into the man that said I do and really meant it and the man that still takes my breath away even when he is sitting in the nasty lazy boy he loves so much....and I want to remember the good times we have had over the last 27 years and forget those trying times