What little I've read of this thread is insane!
Reminds me of the phone call I got from a dad of a 10-year old about 4 or 5 years ago. Asked what kind of "throwing program" I had our older son on when he was 10?
WTF?
After consulting with a few experts, I think I replied something like, "He threw dirt clods at cats and rocks at the stop sign down the street...and ate a lot of ice cream for building mass!"
Let kids be kids.