TigerPawMom
This happens in many many cases with HS pitchers-- trust me--they know the situation as well if not better than you
My son played on a HS team that did not win more than 6 games in any of his three seasons and he was the # 3 hitter on the team. He fully undertood that he and one or two of the other players were the only "baseball players" on the team--in fact he was the sole team memeber to play college ball-- he never let it get to him--he just went out and did his job-- one player cannot carry all the others at the HS level--
The kids know their own talent better than the parents in most cases--it is all part of the process-- We found that it took care of itself