I happen to love this place. It's the only internet site that I belong to-never seen any others that I really cared to be a part of. I think if there's any reason people are reluctant to post, it's because of the relationships that posters have. I think it can be intimidating to feel like you're intruding into someone else's space or friendships. That's the way I felt initially - obviously I got over that. Many people here have known each other for a long time, often away from the site as well. Don't get me wrong - I think that's good. It's just important to remember to welcome new folks in.