Some great advice here and many thanks. The schools we are considering are all very good private schools and they all place students at top universities. I realize that there are some good public schools in the area but my children have only attended private international school and have never lived in America so for us its not an option. So all other things being equal trying to use baseball as tie breaker.
We will look at the Catholic High Schools for our son though once we are there . I hear great things about Jesuit. Ideally though we would like all 3 kids at the same school. We are actually having a hard time in choosing so baseball is just one factor.