As hard as it is , don't let it get you and your son. I know it's tough... one thing my 2013 learned was that he would rather go to a JUCO where his "stock" was higher , than a D1 and fight and claw for everything.
He felt that going where they liked his style of pitching, where he could go for free, and get to play the first two years was more important than the level , sitting and waiting to play. I mean wow at a D1 school you have to make the team, then the travel team, then get on the field... 35 on the roster 9 on the field. all that glitters my friend.