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Originally Posted by SluggerDad:

And you should know,  Dadof3 that Justbaseball's two sons have gone very far in baseball indeed.  But I suspect he's also being a little modest about the two of them.  They were both well known as young studs in these parts.   

Thats awfully kind of you - but I always thought there were better players around us.  And certainly there were.

 

Kind of an interesting story thats relevant I think.  When our younger son was going to enter HS, we decided to send him to one of the local private schools that had a good coach, AD, etc...  No, not so he could play college ball.  Just wanted a good HS experience.  But I was concerned he wasn't good enough to play at one of those schools, so I started asking the coaches of 2 schools (I knew both) in particular (SluggerDad surely knows which 2).

 

Coach A would not only answer, but follow up with an email, phone call...letter in the mail.  The message was basically, "Your boy is a superstar and we want him at our school really bad!"  He even told him on a shadow day that as a local neighborhood kid he was a critical player for them to get.

 

Coach B would never answer.  Or not in a way I easily understood.  He'd say, "Your son will probably be fine wherever he goes.  Just make sure he has fun."  This caused me some concern - as in, does he think he's borderline?  Why is Coach A calling him a superstar when Coach B barely answers?

 

Son went to Coach B's school (20 minute drive instead of 10 minute walk)...cause I thought he was a better coach and I liked the composition of the student body better - more "linear" from poor kids to rich kids and more diverse.  Even though I wasn't sure what the coach thought of him.  Ended up being perhaps the best decision we ever made for any of our kids as parents.  Tremendous coaching staff - our son's team won everything his junior season and ranked #1 in the nation by PG.  And son made varsity as a sophomore and played a whole, whole lot.

 

But I did, indeed wonder leading up to it.

 

Oh - and why didn't Coach B ever really answer my questions?  Cause he wasn't allowed too by rule and he played by the rules (I didn't even know that at the time) - yet another great lesson in good ethical behavior that helped our son to have terrific reinforcement in HS that complemented what we were teaching at home.  Honestly, integrity...hard work...nothing guaranteed.

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