This past week I sat through a graduation that was at his 2nd stop. I watched him go from a very unhappy freshman to young man in cap and gown (he actually steamed it and it didn't look terrible) with his buddies from the team and the others with huge hugs, drinks, and a few tears...just a find a school he will be happy at where he can play ball. Hell i would advise go down a level from what might be possible and be a rock star. The level is totally unimportant if is competitive.
I was concerned when he decided to transfer and it ended up being an outstanding choice for him, the only thing i would have changed is getting it right from the start. The stress levels felt by kids and parents over the level of play is amazing, not needed and is honestly dumb...but then again looking back it is always easy - I did it as well.