When I stopped coaching my son programs interested in him invited both of us to visit their facility and me to talk arrangements. For the couple I told my son was familiar with the facilities they asked me to come by to discuss arrangements.
As mentioned kids don’t understand the big picture. They only hear the good stuff. It’s because they're susceptible to hype and don’t know what questions to ask. When college recruiting started for my daughter at fifteen I remember her explaining to me a certain college was only ten thousand more (per year).