I would appreciate some honest opinions from the knowledgeable and loyal posters of HSBB!
My son is getting ready to enter college and will be playing ball at the DIII level. He has spent the last 2 falls and summers playing with a local 18u program considered to be "select" - that is, there are no try-outs, you can only make the team based on a coach's recommendation. Because of the age group, there were about 12 new boys on this year's team, as compared to last year's.
Here's my question/problem: this summer, we had many, many games when only 8, 9, or 10 boys would show up. This is out of a roster of 18. Included in that number is 1 player who committed to play, and then decided to take the summer off, several who were gone for "senior trips", and many who just didn't bother to let the coach know that they wouldn't be there. There were also times when players couldn't be there because of work or college orientation, which is understandable. The ironic part of the whole thing is that all of these boys but 1 will be playing ball at the next level!
Is this typical of the age group? What have other teams in this situation done? The lack of depth really affected our performance, especially in the dog days of summer.
Additionally, he has a chance to play on the 22u team from this same organization. He enjoyed playing with the teammates who actually bothered to show up, but he would like to be with a team that is more committed to playing and improving over the summer. Being new to college, we're not sure how the summer ball situation will work (are players assigned to teams, are they on their own, etc.). I would really appreciate any advice, insight, stories, etc.
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