I have noticed that this thread has remained dormant for awhile.
Well, that time of the year has arrived. You have signed your NLI, may have taken a few months off, now you are preparing for your HS season. During your practice or scrimmage games you are surprised to see that some scouts are out there watching, and when your season gets into full swing, you might see that more and more scouts may be out there. Some of you might have already had visits. As a HS player, this can be the most exciting time you have ever imagined, but also the most frustrating and confusing.
A few suggestions, from a parent whose son was not drafted and decided to go to school. Regardless of the reasons for that, having been through the process, here are a few tips to pass on.
Be honest with everyone, including yourself. If you really want to be drafted and begin your professional career after HS, be prepared to do so immediately following the draft. Remember, a scouts job is to sign you, especially if you are drafted early, he can lose his job if you have not communicated well with him. If you are really not sure as to what you want to do, tell him. How you conduct yourself in the process may or may not affect how they feel about you years later if drafted again.
Be honest with the coach that has signed you. If they ask you questions, let them know what your expectations are in advance, would you choose to be a draft and follow? Nothing aggravates a college coach more than hearing one thing and then hearing another thing from the scouts. Baseball community is a very small world and most everyone knows everyone. Don't be afraid to discuss your feelings with him also.
Do your homework. Research the teams that have shown an interest in you, study last years draft, know what the term, round money, is. Ask where you will play rookie ball and where you will play, live, as you move through the system. Same thing for college, ask them in advance how they plan to develop you as a future draft prospect, what exactly is expected of you as far as playing time. If you will not be an impact player your first year, you may not be ready to play for a living, you may think you are, you may not. Learn about the ML scholarship program.
Know that when you sign , you are now employed and have joined the work force. Yes it will be tough at times and you will have great challenges ahead of you, are you willing to do that now? It may be your passion, but it is a JOB. Know that if you decide to go to college, it also will be tough. Not a good student, could you lose your eligibility if you get poor grades? School comes first, if you are not willing or able to accept that, think twice, it is not EASY.
Both situations will bring it's rewards, you just have to decide which ones you want. Think about after your choice is made, would you rather be second guessing in rookie camp or in college?
Don't tell anyone you want to be drafted just to be drafted, it is not embarrasing if it doesn't happen, because you either felt you wanted too much (but be realistic) or you wanted to go to school. Don't be afraid to admit to anyone you are not ready to make any decision.
Know that you may have passed up a great opportunity to play professional ball, know that you might become a better pick later on. Your position may have a greater impact upon your choice. Keep tabs on the other 2005 draft players, it will give you an idea of where you might fit in.
Listen to GOOD advice. Advisors, scouts, players, coaches, etc. Talk to those who went to college then went pro, speak to those who were drafted directly out of HS (if you can). Sort out what you feel is valuable in making the right decision for yourself. You will hear a variety of pros and cons on the subject, but you are the one who will be either in rookie camp or in school, not mom or dad, not your advisor, not your best friend, not your coach.
Rely on your parents to guide you through the process. Don't let anyone tell you that they do not know what is best for you, they know you better than anyone else.
Most of all, enjoy your last year in HS. As badly as you might want out, enjoy all of those activities that you have earned as a senior. You will never have them again. Whether you go to work or go to school, shortly you will be on your own, appreciate what you have at home, laundry will have to be done by YOU, either way.
I am not going to get into the pros and cons of college vs. pro. I'll leave that for others later on. For my son, his decision worked best for him, he is happy, he wouldn't trade what he has for anything. I am sure if you heard from parents whose son went in the other direction they would say the same. Start preparing now to make the decision that will be best for YOU and your future.
Good luck!
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