quote:College coach comes out to see kid and notices a different approach in kids game. Also, coach doesn't see same skills shown the year prior. Attitude displayed is concerning.
I don't think that is the case in most reneges. I think most are a change of heart based new players becoming available and Coach feels they are a better shot.
There was a guy I saw signed based on 1 game and it was the best games he ever played. I sat and talked with the recruiter during the game. The guy wasn't offer a renewal and he was finished. If that happened to my son where the coach asked him to tear up the NLI under todays rules we would have torn it up and contacted the colleges we were dealing with and were interested in.
My son's 1st choice finally indicated no offer was coming at the beginning of August. We regrouped and had an NLI within 2 days and son was on campus by the middle of August.
Why get upset? Don't burn bridges and start calling other options. My son was actually enrolled in a D11 with a better offer but it wasn't what he wanted. The coach would only give him an offer after he was enrolled.
You have to suck it up and move on.