Has anyone ever had to deal with a horrible coach at the High School JV level? As of now everyone is kind of ignoring it and telling their kids to keep a low profile, work hard and not call attention to themselves in order not to be on the receiving end of the coaches tirades at games end. Not that it's working because coach has to find someone to yell about every game. But I guess that's really about the only thing you can do, but man it sucks to watch. Just seeing the kids not want to be there (they all want to be there, just not at the moment), not playing as a team because they are made to look over their shoulder, making errors because they're so tight as a reaction to the coach, pressing at the plate. It's just so hard to watch.
That's his personality, the baseball side is lacking equally, but the berating, gaslighting, and pitting players against each other is just unfathomable in a JV baseball program. Especially one where they can't keep kids playing long enough to stick around through their senior year on varsity. Toxic is the term used to describe it.
I have had tough coaches before, some real bastards, but honestly I never thought of them as mean. this guy is mean, this is more like it's forced for the purpose of trying to be the "tough guy" coach? It's one sided, all the time, gets personal, negative, never anything positive, even after a win, never, it's almost a running joke with the players, just to deal with it. Just not good.
And I'm the guy who is always working on the things that need improvement and rarely mention the positive stuff, one of the reason I backed off of coaching or training my own son, but this is,,, just,,, omg, type level.
So how did you deal with your bad coach situation, as player or parent? did you ignore and hope days ahead are better?