One of the better posts from the other thread:
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Originally posted by Coach_May:
Focus on what YOU need to do to be successful. That will be different than many of the guys around you sometimes and sometimes different than everyone around you. They may be able to go out every night and still take care of business in the class room and on the field. You may not be able to do those things.
There is going to be a strong pull for you to want to fit in the with guys. They are going to want you to join in with them. Your going to want to be a part of the things they are doing to fit in. I am not talking about drinking or partying solely but simply hanging out playing video games and doing other things. You have to understand that many guys have been there awhile and have a routine down. They can do those things and not have issues. Your a freshman. You might not be able to do those things. So you have to be strong and understand everyone is not in the same position and do what YOU have to do.
In some cases your eyes are going to be wide open to new things. Crazy stuff. Very enticing things. Stay focused. If you don't your going to pay a heavy price for it. You are free to make what ever choices you wish to make. Your not free to choose the consequences of those choices. Stay focused.
Many times the baseball is not the problem. Your talented or you wouldn't be there. And so is everyone else. But are you mature enough to handle the new found freedom? Are you mature enough to handle the peer pressure of wanting to be one of the boys? Do you understand just because someone else on your team can do certain things that does not mean you can?
A 18 year old kid walking into a mans world. On a team with 22-23 year old men who have been there and done that. Exposed to things many times they have never been exposed to. Stay focused and stay on course. If not your going to learn some very hard lessons. Many times players and parents are so focused on the actual performance on the field they don't think about the pitfalls off the field that can totally negate the on field performance or impact in a negative way the performance on the field and in the class room. Just some thoughts.