This is an apology to anyone I may have offended regarding the Thread "Read This". I in no way meant it to discredit the baseball program at South Carolina. Just to set the record straight I don't believe in zero tolerance, but I don't believe in 4 strikes you are out either.
No excuses, but I did not explain why I posted that article and I am not going to get into that long explanation of the how it came about but for the following:
I began the thread after reading the many responses on drinking on official visits. I don't know if I was tired from being away from home for a week, working 9-6, waiting in the airport in Nashville for plane to arrive and take us back home.
My intention of the thread was to let parents know that their sons/daughters might be facing many new experiences while at college, and witnessing drinking at parties while on a visit should not shock them or you. And I state again, it should be a priority for you as parents to help to educate your sons/daughters about the policies of the school and coach regarding the consequences of their choices. Has nothing to do with not trusting your child. Unless you haven't noticed, drinking, the use of recreational drugs, casual *** is very much practiced at most schools across the country, big and small, d1,d2,d3.
So stop preaching to me about it being illegal, we KNOW it is illegal, THEY know it is illegal, just hope that when the time comes your kids will know what is right and what is wrong. That's it. They'll learn to set their own limits, don't drill them on what they did or didn't do, because chances are you aren't going to hear it all anyway. And don't worry, if your son does or doesn't have a beer on his official visit, it doesn't mean he is not going to make the team. Now if he is going to get ****face drunk, I might say there is a problem.
Bottom line, drinking is a just a PART of what's ahead.
Pabbmom,
Though I don't agree with everything you stated in your post, I found your post to be most honest and no one should condemn you for what you felt was the right thing to do. I know many parents who have done the samething.
AKbaseball,
You are most definetly on the right track when you state about half of juniors and seniors drink in HS. I would probably venture to say, there are many other things done as well.
Sorry if this still doesn't make sense to some, but again I apologize if I offended anyone.
BTW, I just want you all to know that Clemson should be on that list as well. It's very quiet on campus sun, mon, tues, wed, by thurs the place is ready to rock and by saturday rollin'
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