This happened in my 13U game last week. Our opponent had 1 out and a runner on 3rd base, and the batter hits a fly ball to left field. The runner on third never tags, and runs home and steps on the plate ahead of the throw home, which is off-line and goes into the stands and out of play.
I instruct my pitcher to stand on the rubber with the ball, and after the umpire says "play," he throws to my third baseman, who steps on third and appeals the tag up.
The field ump says that it doesn't matter if the runner left early or not, since he would have been awarded home on the ball thrown out of play anyway.
I argued that the runner is out on appeal for not tagging up, regardless of what happened after he crossed the plate. According to my knowledge of the rules, once the runner at third crosses home plate, there's nothing he can do to return to third, even if the ball is dead.
Did the ump get this wrong?
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