JCG posted:Proud-D3-Parent posted:SluggerDad posted:
I mean here in California, where there are only 9 D3 programs total -- only 8 of them at all competitive, and only 3 or 4 of them regularly "nationally ranked"
ADVICE from a D3 Parent whose son is entering his senior season with three awesome years of playing the sport he loves already behind him: Keep your kids focused on the long-term goal. Use their baseball talents as a tool get them into the best academic college possible, rather than focusing on using college as a way to play baseball. If you keep the focus on STUDENT-athlete, there's a better chance of finding the right "fit" for a memorable college baseball experience. Most importantly, they'll walk away with a great education, a host of networking possibilities for being more well-rounded, wonderful memories, and hopefully a really great career!
** --- Enjoyed SluggerDad's "only 8 of them at all competitive..." remark. Seriously, I'm not at all offended - really Our D3 also has three seniors this year, and all three have played more innings than almost all their counterparts at other universities. All three have been on the conference leaderboards. And... each will walk away with a degree from a school ranked #1 in the World. What more could one ask for? Find the right fit for your kids, keeping them focused on the long-term!
Signed,
-- Parent from that 9th program ("competitive" is a relative term)
Wish you all the best this baseball season! It's going to be fun!
Good luck to your son this season, and congrats on that degree. I have seen his team play recently and was really impressed with their game. BTW if you search the team's name here you'll find some threads on the program, all very positive, and another board participant who is a fellow parent of a player.
But the way, my son, who played with the would be D-2 falsely parading as a D-3 in that conference for a year actually told me he admired the guys on what I called the "non-competitive" program in the conference -- even though he believed that they could not beat the JV squad at his school, let alone the varsity squad.
He said about them, "they just go out and play, and play for the love of the game. They know they are not going to win the conference or make the College World Series. They've got nothing to prove. They may not be as talented. But they play hard. Have fun. I sometimes wish I had gone to a school like that. "
At his school if you don't win the conference, the year is a complete bust. If you win the conference but go two and out in the regional, you are bitterly disappointed.
If you make the world series but don't advance far, the season is good, but not great.
That means a LOT of pressure to achieve. The constant pressure explains why the program is run the way it is and why they churn through so many good players.
They are constantly looking for the "it" players who will bring home the gold. And everybody who steps on the field for them, beginning in the fall, knows it. If you dominate in that competition, that's great.
But there is no prize whatsoever for being just a good college baseball player.
In fairness to the coaches, who are actually great guys, but just guys determined to win, they make this clear to the players they recruit.
But again, they recruit LOTS of VERY GOOD players. mostly from California, but also up and down the west coast and also Hawaii.
Because so many California players want to stay and play in California, and because there aren't that many opportunities, and because the school is not impossible to get into, and because the baseball program is highly accomplished, many are willing to give it at try, despite the odds.
My son, for example, could have gone to 4 different programs, 3 of them out of State, but chose to stay in California, cause like most California baseball kids, he LOVES California.