Definitely more about fit and feel and development than a shiny new or big facility. We got to see some incredible facilities on tours and camps. Some programs bragged more on their program and less on the development of my son. Other schools focused on him, asked him what he was looking for, talked about what the plan to do with him, want him to compete to play/start as a freshman, and loved on him - hard! He chose to go to that school. Didn't have the new shiny facility or biggest stadium with the most seats, etc. But it was the best program for him and what he was looking for and what he needed to get in, get a great education and get prepared for the Draft as a junior.
Baseball isn't like Basketball and Football (Thank God) with collecting and bragging about offers, but some schools are on different timelines. Vandy has 20 commits for 2021, Florida & Ark 20. GT has 10. UNC 11. Yet Texas has 6. Texas Tech has 22 commits for 20. No way those kids stick and make the team.
Recruiting timelines are a bit different. The early commits tend to change.
Virginia has 13 22's. Louisville, Miami and Hail State have 12, Florida and Florida State have 11.
Stanford has 7 22's who haven't taken the SAT or ACT yet. 3.8 GPA and 1300 requirement to get in there.
I think you have to look at the program, who has what your son needs. Does he want big city, small town. What does the school look like draft wise.
You have to look at the institution. What does the school give you. Degrees, Alumni, opportunity. What is the graduation rate? Retention Rates? Academic assistance.
They might have a shiny new, and amazing facility, but if the degree or school is a joke. You're wasting your time. There is life after baseball and it does matter where you go to school.
What do the rosters look like? How many pitchers do they have. Will you have a chance to compete and play? If you're going to be the 6th out of 9 pitchers in your class. Are you the first of 3 commits to a school that normally has 17-19? You better get comfortable with the Transfer portal.
Early commits won't know those things and that's risky when they recruit behind you. It is a huge relief to be committed, but that puts a target on your back and you still have to challenge yourself, face stiff competition, and get better. If you don't, get lazy, put on weight, etc. They'll yank that commit from you in a heartbeat or drop the offer substantially.