Here is my son’s story. First, a few notes that we believe contributed to his story. He is on the smaller side, with good defensive skills and a good baseball IQ. HS travel baseball team is an important choice. Showcases were NOT beneficial to demonstrate the above skills. College summer team chosen does matter. We, as parents, were there to support him, but were hands off and allowed him to manage his dream. And finally, his coachability was the most consistent feedback he received as he grew in the game.
At an early age my son, a middle infielder, set goals to play varsity HS baseball, play at a D1 college, get drafted into the MLB, and make it to the show. He faced many naysayers (and even some daddy-ball sabotage), but was able to keep his head down and focus. He always said he was going to control what he could control, and not worry about the rest. He did play varsity baseball in high school, where the coaches urged him to seek out D2/D3 colleges. He was respectful, but kept pursuing his D1 dream. One mid-level D1 college recruiter followed him his junior and senior year in high school. There was some interest from big and small schools but nothing tangible. The mid major D1 offered him a spot at the same time another mid major D1 gave him a call. We thought he had his heart set on the first D1 team, but at the 11th hour he committed to the second school because he felt he had a better chance of playing, even as a freshman. I’ll never forget driving to his first collegiate game while following the twitter lineup...tears of joy when our son got the start! He played all four years, had a wonderful college experience (graduated with a finance degree in four years), and maximized his summer baseball experiences. After his sophomore season, he played in Rhode Island and was called up to play in the Cape Cod League playoffs after the RI season was over. This paved the way for him to return to the Cape after his junior year, which he did. This kid, who was on the smaller side and was told “no” repeatedly, had a terrific showing in the Cape and made the allstar team. His senior baseball campaign went well. Early in the season, he told us that he would definitely be playing ball after graduation. When we inquired, he said, “Either I’m going to be drafted by the MLB, or I’ll play Indy ball, or I’ll find a team outside the US. I am not ready to hang up my cleats!” Through hard work and determination, he was drafted in the top 10 rounds, and has been moving up the minor league ranks. He even played in several MLB spring training games this season before the shutdown. His moral of the story....”Don’t let ANYONE tell you NO, always prepare and work hard (which gives you great confidence), and enjoy every moment you are preparing for and playing the game.” And go where you have the best opportunity to play.
As a side note, this forum has been a godsend and lifesaver through all these experiences, as things have not always played out as expected. So THANK YOU ALL for your wonderful advice and support!