Hard to know where to draw the line though. I keep prepping my son for the eventuality he will not be at the level of his dream school. Not that I don't believe in him I just think it is a tall order. He insists thats still where his sights are set. Then I have to tell him - again - that if this is what you truly want everyday you have to ask yourself, "what am I going to do TODAY to make myself a better baseball player?" Might be a workout. Might be yoga. Time in the cage. Long toss etc. Usually a combination. But when is enough enough? Do we want our 14yo or 15yo putting in 4 hours a day every single day on baseball? I am not saying we don't, just raising the question. Then comes the other reality... can't play multiple sports and still put that time in. Yesterday long toss 4:30 til 5. Cages were full so went upstairs early for his scheduled workout - otherwise would have hit next. Workout for about an 1:15. Drive 35 minutes home. Get home about 7ish. Get a bite and go to basketball practice from 7:30 to 9:30. Summer he will have hs football workouts, hs summer league basketball, AAU basketball, travel baseball and hs open gyms. How much can these kids reasonably do?
Why do you keep saying that? Your son has years ahead of him to improve his game. Do you think that any of us knew when our kids were in 8th grade where they would end up? Why does an 8th grader have to worry about making himself better at 13?
So you tell us 2020dad, how much can kids reasonable do? Why does a 2020 have an hour and a half workout? After he just did long toss? Then basketball practice for 2 hours?
You situation sounds like my daughters boyfriend sons. No wonder he ended up on crutches for 6 weeks. And now is restricted for one sport at a time, with a bit of an overlap. His father just thought he was an athlete, when actually he was just a young boy with a growing body that was getting overworked.